“I’m young. I’m forever young. What the world says doesn’t shape me, make me or break me. I create my own path. I shape my life. I grow”
Follow her on her journey
My male
Whenever I see a potential alpha male, my mind begins to imagine various scenarios. My alpha male is a strong, dependent, God-fearing, handsome….. The list goes on and on. Though at times, he doesn’t necessarily possess this attributes, Im just attracted to him. Now, am very imaginative so the scenes I create span from how we meet to marriage, kids, even as far as how we die.
This applies to a lot of women because we all want to rely on someone no matter how strong we claim to be or truly are. Now, constantly thinking like this prevents you from actually meeting the right person. You create an illusion, a false one about how your life should be. Don’t get me wrong, you create your path but imaginations are just that, imaginations. Life isn’t a dream land.
With all that being said, stop dreaming. Face the real world. I read somewhere that relationships come and go, and the person teaches us a vital lesson in his/her own way. So, my sweethearts, when you see a potiental male, just observe and keep calm. You may be destined to be just friends or even more than friends. Don’t spoil that with your imaginations.
Smiles……..
Have always loved drawing. I decided to give it a try. These came out during one of my many trials.
And …..
I guess that’s what happens when one is a cartoon lover. I felt good. I felt as if I had finally achieved something great even from the little thing.
Am happy. I made myself happy and that matters to me.
Be strong for yourself
My name is john and have been in love with this girl for the past ten years. I have been trying to get her attention but she doesn’t see me.
Or…..
My friend betrayed me. She did something to me that I would never do to her. She hurt me.
There are many other cases.
Why exactly do u fool yourself into thinking that people around you will treat you the same way you treat them? Why do you over think the situations? Why can’t you let go? Its simply because you are too nice and this has made you weak.
I’m not criticizing anyone because am like that but you have to forget those situation and place it in the appropriate hands- God. You have to forgive, move on and grow. I won’t say forget because you can’t. The mind just doesn’t forget hurtful things.
There’s plenty of fish in the sea
When I first arrived at the school gate, I felt fulfilled. I got an admission into my dream uni and even though the economy wasn’t smiling, I was able to resume. Boys were the number one on my Not- to-do list. My encounters with them uni boys have been bad bad bad. Before my admission, I worked as a sales girl in my mamas shop. There I got cheated, slapped…. Well, u get the gist. It was also there I met a guy whose name I can’t remember. He was a year 3 student of the uni of Ilorin, tall, handsome, hot and sweet with words but with all these fine parts came a deformed one- sex addict. He even had the guts to tell me he disvirgined his previous girlfriends. During one of our talks, his Mr P bulged out and since then, I said goodbye.
During one of the 6 physics practical held, the group members were rearranged and I ended up with a new set of members, one of which was an Edo guy. He was funny and made me laugh.He was awesome. We aren’t together as he left to go study his dream course at another uni but my time spent with him can’t be forgotten. That’s a story for another day.
That’s two different encounters with two different men with two different personalities from two different States. My point is this: there’s a lot of fish in the sea, we can’t determine the fecundity of a whole population using just one organism.
I am a science student. I can’t help it . lool
Enough
I have had friends – note that I said had. Not everyone you meet or friend you make is meant to stay in your life forever. They teach you vital lessons and leave.
A friend is a favoured companion who at times turns into family or just remain as an acquaintance. Personally, when I call you a friend, it not only means I love you but that I cherish, trust, believe and will always stand by you. Because of this definition of mine, I have been made a fool – not once, nor twice – of the ones I called friends.
I remember being used as a punching bag ( words not fists) whenever “A” was angry. Even with the insults, I had hope. Humans fights but at the same time, we settle our disputes but I have come to realize that one just has to let go.
One time, “B” spoilt my reputation because she wanted a guy whom she claimed I was blocking her from.
Those guys were my good friends at that time. I love them. I learnt my lesson. I realized when I had learnt enough and my heart could take no more and I let go.
Am grateful.
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